About those Pesky Picky Eaters!

I had a conversation with a fellow healthy eater who is having a difficult time feeding her 3 year old. Most of us know that under the age of 2 you can usually get your kid to eat almost anything, but once the independence kicks in, so does the rejection of food. Some kids are always picky, but this pattern is the most common scenario.

That got me thinking and I felt compelled to write my thoughts on this because I feel quite strongly about it. I separated my thoughts into 3 main points.

1. We have a very simple but hard-line rule in my house:

YOU DON’T HAVE TO LIKE IT, AND YOU DON’T HAVE TO EAT IT, BUT YOU HAVE TO TRY IT. 

I have implemented this rule since my kids started eating solids, but I saw it emphasized in a book I read, Bringing Up Bebe, and realized how important this rule is. (I don’t agree with everything in this book by any stretch of the imagination, but on the issue of food…I think she’s makes good points)

This is powerful for a couple of reasons.

1. Tastebuds change. They change as we grow, as we explore, and as we age. We tend to attach one negative experience with food to a lifetime of choices. I don’t want my children to fall into that trap because it would really limit them from a culinary perspective.

I had an interesting experience with my 3 year old when he was sick. He got some sort of virus/cold and just wasn’t feeling well. I made him carrot/ginger/orange juice thinking it would boost his immune system and make him feel better. He tasted it and hated it so much that he actually started crying. Needless to say he didn’t drink the juice. 2 days later he was feeling better and I made him the juice again. He started crying when he saw it. He begged me not to give it to him. He told me that he had tried it once before and it was awful and he never wanted to taste it again. But my rules are my rules. I insisted he try it again. It took me some discussion, some crying, some time…but after about half an hour, I finally convinced him that he needed to try it once again. I reiterated my point…Orly, you don’t have to drink this whole cup, but you have to try it. If you don’t like it I promise you that I’ll give you some water to wash away the taste and you don’t have to drink anymore. He frowned, squinted his nose, and reluctantly put the cup to his mouth showing his disgust for the juice. All of a sudden, his frown turned into a smile and he started to laugh hysterically. I asked him why he was laughing and he responded…”Mami, you tricked me!!!!! This juice tastes good.” Not only did he have that sip, but he had the whole cup and asked me to make him more. My point is that my son didn’t dislike carrot/ginger/orange juice…he was sick and his body was out of whack and nothing new would have tasted good at that point. If I had not made him confront that juice again, and the next time someone offered him that juice, said “oh no, orly doesn’t like that kind of juice,” he might turn into a 30 year old man who hated carrot/ginger/orange juice one day.

2. Foods taste different based on how they are prepared. A person may dislike the way tomatoes taste on a cheeseburger, but love tomatoes and mozzarella drizzled in olive oil and balsamic vinegar. Or they may enjoy roasted butternut squash but dislike a butternut squash soup. This does not mean that this person doesn’t like tomatoes, or butternut squash, it might be a texture issue or cold versus hot….there are many different factors. I personally think canned green beans are disgusting, yet a roasted green bean, or even lightly boiled is delicious to me.

2. My other rule is that there are certain things my kids do not choose: specifically when they sleep and what they are served to eat in our home.

I’m all about giving my children independence and an opportunity to express themselves. In fact, I let them choose things like what they wear (even if it doesn’t match), but sleep and food are non-negotiable.

Here are my reasons why:

I believe it is my responsibility as a parent to protect my children and do what’s best for their health and development. I happen to believe that sleep and food affect children’s well-being and development. As a result,  if I allow them to make decisions on their own behalf that I don’t agree with, I am not protecting them. I am allowing them to make decisions for themselves before they have the capacity to make educated decisions for themselves. When my son can present a reasonable, educated, supported argument that a lolipop is better for him at dinnertime than broccoli, then I will consider it. Until then, broccoli it is. That being said, within these rules, they have choices. For example, they don’t get to choose what I serve for dinner. So they can’t see a plate of lentil soup and say “no mommy, please make me a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.” (well, they can and have said it, but they will not get the desired result) BUT as long as they taste every item on the plate, they do have the choice NOT to eat the plate. There are obvious consequences attached to that decision, the most obvious one being they would go to bed hungry. But I allow them to make that choice because I know that going to bed hungry one night will not affect their health and development. Eating junkfood all the time WILL . The other consequence is that I offer them a dessert after dinner every night. This could range from fruit with homemade whip cream to a piece of dark chocolate or if someone gave them a lolipop that day I may say you can save it for dessert. If they choose not to eat their meal, they don’t get their dessert. This is only because I don’t want to allow them to fill their tummies with the dessert part which defeats the purpose of going to bed hungry.

3. As parents we must lead by example.

If we want our kids to eat healthy, balanced meals and we want them to be open to new foods, new tastes, and new experiences…we, ourselves, have a duty to be an example to them. If I refuse to try seafood, then its not unreasonable for my children to refuse it also. Or maybe they don’t refuse seafood, but instead refuse vegetables. We can always use the argument of you must do as I say but not as I do, but I simply don’t find that to be an effective technique.

My husband, for example, doesn’t like pickles. He simply doesn’t like them. But to his credit, every time pickles are served with his meal the man takes a bite of the pickle. When he realizes that he still doesn’t like it, he sets the rest of the pickle aside. Maybe he’ll never like pickles, but maybe one day, someone will prepare a pickle and he will enjoy it. Who knows, he’ll never stop trying!!!!! So when he says to his son, you have to try these oysters…he can say it with authority, because he walks his talk!

We may have been blessed with good eaters or maybe it has to do with our rules and our parenting, but our kids do eat almost everything. Of course I’ve been put in the position of saying at a restaurant, my son loves vegetables, and having him spit them out and only want fries. And no matter how much healthy food I offer them at home, they will kill for a cupcake or candy at a party. The bad stuff tastes good and kids love bad stuff and thats OK!!!! But the goal is to always PLANT THE SEED. Continue offering the good stuff in hopes that when they can make their own decisions, those decisions will be good ones. And maybe, if we’re lucky they won’t have to re-learn everything they know about food when they’re 34 years old because they’re sick or overweight. And maybe, just maybe, they’ll thank us for this one day!!!!

Dinner for the Kids

A future family goal of ours is to all sit together at the dinner table and have a family dinner. The reason we don’t do it yet is because our children still go to bed much earlier than we can have dinner prepared for ourselves. Therefore I usually make the boys’ dinner, feed them, and while i’m bathing them, Orlando typically gets home and makes our dinner. Then we use the leftovers from our dinner for their lunch or dinner the following day. This routine is soon to change but as anyone with children can vouch….routines are constantly changing when you have little kids at home.

Yesterday I whipped this up relatively quickly and thought I should share it with you moms and dads who are always struggling with ideas for the kids.

I had some left over chicken in the fridge and some fresh broccoli from our box.

  1. I steamed the broccoli for less than 5 minutes so it could have a nice crunch.
  2. On a pan, I heated a little coconut oil.
  3. I chopped a little bit of ginger and green pepper and tossed it in the pan.
  4. Then I tossed in the leftover chicken which I chopped up into tiny pieces.
  5. I sauteed the ginger, green peppers and chicken with a splash of liquid aminos
  6. I heated up a packet of whole grain brown basmati rice
  7. And I served.

The meal came out delicious and the boys loved it. I noticed as I was feeding Justin that the meal was a little dry so I grabbed my olive oil spritzer and sprayed a little olive oil to moisten it up and add some good fat to their meal.

On the items I used:

Liquid Aminos is a little gem to have at the house. It is a healthy alternative to soy sauce and it has 16 amino acids. The ingredients are Vegetable Protein from Soybeans and Purified Water. I use it in small quantities because I think it has a powerful taste but it really adds a nice touch to stir fries, or when you want to revive leftover grilled chicken or something like that.

Healthy Soy Sauce Alternative

I found this rice at Publix and tried it yesterday for the first time. It is a Whole Grain Brown Basmati Rice. Orlando and I don’t eat rice regularly but my doctor did tell me that kids need more whole grains than adults so I want to make sure to give them a balanced meal. I  thought this was great because it was microwaveable and has very low sodium 10mg. I tried it and will confess that its a little flavorless, but with the combination of the liquid amino chicken and vegetables and a spritz of olive oil, it was delicious.

We took this genius idea from Alton Brown’s Good Eats episodes. Olive oil is a tough one because its easy to drizzle too much on the plate. I bought this spray bottle at bed bath and beyond for less than $2.00 and it lets us control how much olive oil we want to put in our meals. In yesterday’s case, I only wanted a spray or two just to add a little moisture to the meal and it worked like a charm!

 

 

Beet Soup – One of our family favorites

I grew up in a Cuban family, and we all know that vegetables are not popular in a typical Cuban meal. In fact, if you ask many Cubans whether or not they eat vegetables, they will likely respond…well, I eat corn!!!!!
 
In my case,  a typical dinner for me was rice, black beans, and ______ (fill in the blank, picadillo, steak, fricassee, etc.) But every once in a while, I must confess that my mother threw in some vegetables for us. Now to her defense, this was before the age of google and she really was not fluent in the health movements we know today. So just the fact that she attempted to incorporate some veggies in our meal merits a little credit, coming from her cultural background. One of the vegetables I grew up eating on occasion were canned red beets. As a child, I looooooved those red beets that my mom would serve. In my ignorance, I didn’t realize that they could be purchased in the produce section of the supermarket because I had only been exposed to the canned ones.
 
My love affair with red beets disappeared once I went to college and I never really ate canned red beets again. And then one day, I picked up my box of shares from Annie’s Organic Club and there they were, red beets…. the actual vegetable. Excited, I told Orlando that I loved red beets as a child and that we should make them.
 
Orlando made a soup which instantly became a family favorite in our home, and because we had extra beets, he roasted the rest of them and we had those on a different day. Both the roasted beets, and the soup are delicious and so healthy. We hope you enjoy this recipe.
 
Beet and Garlic Soup: (We got this recipe from the Whole Living Cleanse article we spoke about in a prior post. )
 
Makes 4 cups

Ingredients

  • 6 medium beets
  • 2 tablespoons olive oil, plus more for drizzling
  • 8 unpeeled garlic cloves
  • 1 large leek, thinly sliced
  • 1 teaspoon fresh thyme leaves
  • 1 bay leaf
  • Coarse salt and pepper
  • 2 tablespoons lemon juice
  • 4 cups of vegetable stock

Directions

  1. Heat oven to 400 degrees. Drizzle beets with olive oil and roast in parchment-lined foil until tender, about 1 hour. Meanwhile, drizzle garlic cloves with oil and roast in separate foil packet, about 30 minutes (add the garlic after the beets have roasted for 30 minutes and let them both cook for another 30). Unwrap beets, let cool, peel, and quarter. Squeeze garlic from skin. Set aside. (TIP: Orlando usually roasts an entire head of garlic and keeps the leftovers in the fridge for other recipes we make that week.)
  2. Heat 2 tablespoons olive oil in a pot over medium heat. Add leek and cook, stirring, until tender, 6 to 8 minutes. Add beets and garlic, thyme, bay leaf, and 4 cups vegetable stock. Season with salt and pepper.
  3. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat and simmer, 5 minutes. Discard bay leaf. Let cool slightly, then puree in a blender until smooth. Stir in lemon juice and adjust seasoning to taste.

 A NOTE ON CANNED RED BEETS:  After we had this delicious soup, I told Orlando to go to the store and buy the canned red beets. Rarely do we find a vegetable that we like in  a can and I thought it would be good to keep it at the house for when we were in a pinch with the boys and needed a quick veggie. I was DEVASTATED to find out that canned red beets have added high fructose corn syrup. Can you believe that? A vegetable that is naturally sweet! These companies get a perfectly healthy vegetable that is intended to detoxify your body and use it to attack your liver instead. It is offensive and wrong and shows a huge problem with the food industry in this country. I didn’t even bother to check the ingredients of the can when we bought it because I would have never even dreamed that it would have added sugar. I didn’t remember the canned version being any sweeter than what the roasted beet tasted like now. So I served it and took an excited bite, when my taste buds screeched and said….whoa, these beets are tooooo sweet. That’s when I looked at the back of the can and realized that I was having a healthy vegetable soaking in high fructose corn syrup. It is safe to say, we do not have canned red beets at home any more.

IN CASE YOU’RE  NOT CONVINCED TO TRY RED BEETS. PLEASE TAKE A MINUTE TO READ ITS HEALTH BENEFITS:

  • Beets are a unique source of phytonutrients called betalains. Betanin and vulgaxanthin are the two best-studied betalains from beets, and both have been shown to provide antioxidant, anti-inflammatory, and detoxification support. The detox support provided by betalains includes support of some especially important Phase 2 detox steps involving glutathione. Although you can see these betalain pigments in other foods (like the stems of chard or rhubarb), the concentration of betalains in the peel and flesh of beets gives you an unexpectedly great opportunity for these health benefits.
  • Unlike some other food pigments, betalains undergo very steady loss from food as the length of cooking time is increased. For example, one recent study has shown the red betalain pigments in beets to be far less heat stable than red anthocyanin pigments in red cabbage. The difference between 15 minutes of steaming versus 25 minutes of steaming, or 60 minutes of roasting versus 90 minutes of roasting can be significant in terms of betalain damage. For these reasons, we recommend that you keep beet steaming times to 15 minutes or less, and roasting times under an hour.
  • An estimated 10-15% of all U.S. adults experience beeturia (a reddening of the urine) after consumption of beets in everyday amounts. While this phenomenon is not considered harmful in and of itself, it may be a possible indicator of the need for healthcare guidance in one particular set of circumstances involving problems with iron metabolism. Individuals with iron deficiency, iron excess, or specific problems with iron metabolism are much more likely to experience beeturia than individuals with healthy iron metabolism. For this reason, if you experience beeturia and have any reason to suspect iron-related problems, we recommend a healthcare consult to follow up on possible issues related to iron status.
  • In recent lab studies on human tumor cells, betanin pigments from beets have been shown to lessen tumor cell growth through a number of mechanisms, including inhibition of pro-inflammatory enzymes (specifically, cyclooxygenase enzymes). The tumor cell types tested in these studies include tumor cells from colon, stomach, nerve, lung, breast, prostate and testicular tissue. While lab studies by themselves are not proof of beets’ anti-cancer benefits, the results of these studies are encouraging researchers to look more closely than ever at the value of betanins and other betalains in beets for both prevention and treatment of certain cancer types. http://www.whfoods.com/genpage.php?tname=foodspice&dbid=49

 

The Juice

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I decided to make our family a juice this morning instead of a smoothie… Why… Because quite frankly I find it difficult to tolerate the consistency of carrots in a smoothie. They just don’t get liquidy enough in my bullet. And I was in the mood for carrot/ginger. So I whipped out the juicer and started tossing in everything I could find.

Ingredients:

Carrots

Celery

Ginger

Oranges

Apples

Pears

Cucumbers

Result:

Delicious!!!!!!!!!!! I mean wow!!!!!! Don’t get me wrong, I like smoothies a lot and they are definitely a healthier option because they keep all the fiber from the fruits and veggies in the drink. But I must confess that the juice was awesome and easier to swallow. It may however make me hungry quicker because its all liquid. I’ll have to keep you posted on that one.

Downfall:

Juicing for a family of four is no easy task! I forgot to count but I used approximately 10 carrots, 4 long celery sticks, 1 1/2 inches of ginger, 4 pears, 4 apples, 4 small mandarin oranges, and 1/2 a cucumber. And I used the cucumber at the end really when I was trying to finish filling the cup and ran out of other stuff. I made approx 5 8-ounce cups. That doesn’t seem like a lot to me at all since thats our breakfast. The boys and i got 8 oz each and Orlando got 16 oz.

So the conclusion is if you’re going to juice, make sure to stock up on plenty of vegetables and fruits so you don’t run out and get frustrated.

Note: juicing is especially beneficial If you have a cold and need to be drinking lots of fluids. You get all sorts of vitamins and flush out the cold at the same time.

We’re Back!!!!!

Hi Everyone! 

We came back from our vacation with lots of info and ready to get back into the groove of things. 

We shared a condo with another couple who share a lot in our healthy belief system. We split the groceries in between both families and cooked at home every night. Of course this was the kind of vacation that called for staying in to eat because we would be at the beach all day and had a fully stocked kitchen in the apartment. Once the kids went to sleep we cooked and ate and drank some wine – well, they did; I, true to form, am pregnant once again during vacation! 

As for the meals, we made more exceptions than we at home but that was to be expected. But we are proud to announce that our lifestyle DID IN FACT survive our vacation!!!!!! 

How we cheated:

1. Orlando made chocolate chip pancakes in the morning for the kids. I can’t help myself…I love them!!!!! So on those mornings, I treated myself to the pancakes! 

2. The gang drank alcohol. Orlando normally saves his glasses of wine or scotch for the weekend but since we were at the beach the whole week and it was a like an extra long weekend… they drank every day. 

3. We ate more deli meat. Sandwiches seem to fit well into a day at the beach and although I am not a fan of deli ham because it is processed and usually has corn syrup or high sodium, on this trip, we did have ham and cheese sandwiches on certain days. We tried to buy good quality deli from Publix but nonetheless, we ate it. 

WHERE WE MADE BETTER CHOICES:

1. We ate more WHOLE foods than anything else. 

We bought things like

  • eggs
  • berries
  • bananas
  • cherries
  • avocados
  • tomatoes
  • zucchini
  • squash
  • salad
  • mangoes
  • nuts
  • organic chicken
  • extra dark chocolate
  • ezekiel bread
  • sweet potatoes
  • quinoa
  • leeks, onions, fresh garlic

2. For dinners we made

  • Cabbage Soup one night
  • Spinach pasta with ground turkey one night – absolutely delicious – recipe to follow
  • Tacos one night – we cheated on the flour tortilla but the contents of the tacos were healthy
  • Salad one night
  • Steak with sweet potato and vegetables one night 
  • Fricase de pollo with Quinoa one night – recipe to follow – made by Yaimy and delicious!

3. For the beach we got creative

  • after taking ham and cheese sandwiches one day and feeling that wasn’t too good for us, Yaimy made us some grilled chicken the next morning. We put the chicken in a container and while at the beach we made chicken sandwiches on ezekiel bread. We used ketchup and mayo and mustard, but made sure to buy all ingredients without high fructose corn syrup.
  • we hard boiled eggs and cut up avocados and took them to the beach. With a little olive oil and salt it was a fresh delicious treat.
  • we cut up a ton of fruit – mangoes, berries, cherries, melon, pineapple…etc. Instead of munching on chips, we munched on fruit. It was nice and cold. 

4. Other things we did:

  • chop up zucchini and squash, toss in olive oil and salt and toss in pan until cooked for snack
  • Dessert –  a nice piece of dark chocolate
  • we took frozen vegetables like peas and carrots and when in a pinch with the kids, we’d steam them for the boys. 
  • we also had oatmeal and almond milk for the boys when they were really tired and wanted something quick and easy. 

OVERALL, the vacation was a success. There was a nice balance between having some treats…the last night Yaimy escaped from us and bought a small container of Strawberry ice cream between the kids and us we all had a little cup 🙂 

but not forgetting to eat our vegetables and fruits. We avoided most of the junk that people eat during vacations – chips, sweets, sodas, processed foods…etc. 

We did buy 2 bags of Pita chips to snack on but they didn’t have a major role in the vacation. I actually ended up throwing almost a full bag away at the end. 

Surprisingly, we didn’t make any smoothies throughout the vacation. We ate heavier breakfasts since we were going to be at the beach all day and then there just wasn’t an opportunity to make them later on. We’ll explore that next time!!!!! 

 

 

Can lifestyle survive vacation?????

It used to be (for us) that when we went on vacation, we left everything behind, including whatever diet we may be on. I mean, really,it’s our vacation… We should be able to enjoy ourselves. We work too hard to deprive ourselves from what we like on one of our rare moments of freedom!!!!!!

Well I sit in my balcony overlooking the ocean realizing that as I approach my 1 year anniversary of the day I began my journey to get healthy (July 19)… for the first time in my life… I actually brought my lifestyle on this trip! What a concept.

Biggest factor: I am on a beach vacation and I can do groceries. I think that’s pretty huge. But on my previous beach trips, our shopping list would be filled with chips, dip, cereal, cookies, sodas, and “easy” stuff. This time around, we split our groceries with ouR dear friends and we bought things like fruits, salad, quinoa, natural peanut butter, real jelly, Ezekiel bread, and vegetables. We made sandwiches for the beach but used Ezekiel bread and good quality deli meat. We took fruits such as mangoes, grapes, berries, and mandarin oranges. We have cabbage soup and lentil soup and eggplant lasagna on the menu for dinners.

I just came up to my apartment to put my kids down for nap and I made myself this delicious salad:

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I used organic girlgreens,mandarins, carrots, tomatoes, almonds, craisins, a little leftover chicken that we had for dinner last night, avocados, balsamic vinegar, olive oil, and my vacation treat: manchego cheese!!!!! Yummy.

I devoured my salad and it was delicious.

That being said, this morning my hubby made chocolate chip pancakes for the kids and us. We love pancakes and Orlando thinks its a nice tradition to make pancakes in the mornings on weekends or vacations. We used dark chocolate chips,but other than that they weren’t particularly healthy. And that’s ok with us!!! Because it’s a worthwhile treat for us and we are not dieting. I think it’s beautiful and significant that we don’t have to give up every guilty pleasure that we enjoy. But we exercise discretion and moderation and it makes us happier, healthier people and teaches our kids to have positive feelings towards food. They can enjoy a pancake in the morning and have delicious fruits and veggies for lunch. It’s all about balance. Ishould note that Orlando made the delicious pancakes but did not eat them. He doesn’t really likebreakfast foods and pancakes just aren’t worth it to him. So he doesn’t put food in his mouth thats not worth it to him. Instead he will treat himself to some wine while he plays dominoes on the beach because that is something he enjoys. We all have to pick and choose the things we really enjoy instead of indulging on anything just because it’s in front of our face. That is a valuable lesson he has taught me.

As for tomorrow morning, we have our bullet ready for some delicious smoothies and we’ll continue to enjoy our vacation healthily and happily. We’ll keep you posted!

On a road trip

We are on the road heading towards our vacation spot for a week. Thought we’d share with you what snacks we took with us for the road.

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We chose these raw veggies because they are easy and not messy. The ranch makes them yummy and it’s a nice treat although orly (my 3 yr old prefers them without the ranch)

We also brought a fruit bowl and water in our cooler. We also put some cheese sticks for the boys. It keeps us satisfied while we’re in the car and beats stopping at a fast food place.

Fearless Friday… Carb-free lasagna

By Caroline:

We all know that at the end of a long week sometimes we just want comfort food. And we definitely want to treat ourselves to something delicious… But at the same time we’re afraid of totally going off the rails. So we thought about the concept of fearless Fridays. Giving you a recipe from time to time thats a healthier alternative to comfort food. It doesn’t have to be the healthiest meal in the world, but we are striving to make better choices. So here’s our first attempt at a healthier weekend meal. It takes some time to make so it’s perfect for Fridays or Saturdays with friends.

By Orlando:

Eggplant lasagna.

It was as good a lasagna as any I’ve ever had. I know it is hard to believe, but I swear it’s true. In place of pasta sheets, we use eggplant sliced in 1/4 inch slices length-wise. A mandolin is ideal in order to get even slices, but you can eye-ball it with a knife. This is a take on a recipe I found online.

The meat in the lasagna is ground turkey and chicken. You can use one or both, but I wanted the depth of flavor that the combination would provide. You can use turkey or chicken sausage as well if you want. A quick note on ground turkey: always check the fat % on the package. Turkey that is 85/15 (15% fat) is as bad as eating ground beef. A 99% or “fat-free” turkey is ideal, but it is super dry. I usually use a 93/7 blend which is still healthy and reasonable.

This is NOT one of our weekly go-to dishes mainly because I use a good deal of cheese (even though they are all fat-free or 2% milk cheese). Also, it is not as packed with vegetables as I normally like. But the true genius of this dish is that you don’t use any spaghetti sauce. The sauce is comprised of all ground turkey/chicken and a combination of red wine, tomato paste, and a small can of Rottela. In other words, you are saving the 100-plus grams of sugar contained on Prego or Ragu. Add to that the absence of any pasta, and you have a relatively healthy, very low-carb lasagna that you can make as a “weekend cheat” dish. As I always do, I will eventually find a way to add a lot of veggies to this dish and make it even healthier, but I didn’t want to go crazy on my first attempt and risk watering-down the lasagna. One of the keys to a good lasagna is that it can stand on its own after plating. This lasagna did so in large part because it was not overly-sauced, but it still had an awesome saucy taste inside of the ground meats.

Mock Noodles

  • 2 large eggplants, peeled, sliced lengthwise into 1/4 inch noodle-like strips
  • cooking spray (olive oil spray is best)
  • salt and pepper

Meat Sauce

  • 1 1/2 lbs ground sirloin or 1 lb ground turkey breast and 1 lb ground chicken (or 2 pounds of your favorite)
  • 2 tablespoons olive oil
  • 2 onions, chopped
  • 3 cloves chopped garlic
  • 1 red pepper, chopped
  • 1 (16 ounce) package sliced mushrooms
  • 2 tablespoons italian seasoning (or mix of oregano, basil and thyme)
  • salt and pepper
  • 1 teaspoon red pepper flakes (if you dare!) (optional)
  • 1 cup red wine
  • 1 small can of Rotelle tomato sauce
  • 1 (15 ounce) can diced tomatoes (for less sugar, 3 chopped tomatoes)

Cheese Mixture

Directions:

  1. 1
    Preheat oven to 425 degrees.
  2. 2
    Spray cookie sheet, arrange eggplant slices and season with salt and pepper.
  3. 3
    Cook slices 5 minutes on each side.
  4. 4
    Lower oven temp to 375.
  5. 5
    Brown meat, season with salt, pepper, and Italian Seasonings and place in a bowl.
  6. 6
    Add red pepper, onion, mushrooms, and garlic in olive oil until cooked (don’t forget to season).
  7. 7
    Add spinach, season, and cook for 5-10 minutes. Please DRAIN any excess liquids!!!!!
  8. 8
    Add the meat to the mixture and add the tomatoes, tomato sauce, and red wine. Simmer for 10 minutes.
  9. Blend ricotta, egg and onion mixture in a bowl. Spray cooking spray in bottom of 9” x 13” glass pan. You can use a smaller pan for a taller lasagna.
  10. 10
    Layer ½ eggplant slices, ricotta, meat, mozzarella and parmesan.
  11. 11
    Repeat.
  12. 12
    Add last layer of sauce, then mozzarella and parmesan on top.
  13. 13
    Cover with foil and bake at 375 degrees for 1 hour.
  14. 14
    Remove foil and bake or broil another 5-10 minutes until cheese is browned.
  15. 15
    Let it rest 10 minutes before slicing, if you can wait that long!

Weekly Staples

Lots of people have asked me what are the staples we have in our home and what we do for meal planning. I have to confess…my situation might be a little different from most other people because my husband likes to cook dinner and therefore he goes to the grocery store every evening to choose what he’s going to make for dinner. Yes, Orlando goes to the grocery store almost every single day. THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE TO DO THIS!!!!! This has it’s benefits because we tend to eat fresh foods instead of frozen foods, and because I can always have Orlando pick up something we need, but this doesn’t work for everyone…I, for example, would NOT go to a grocery store every day!

This being said…we do have staples in our home, and as time has gone by, we have started planning our meals much more than we used to in the past. Plus, the daily grocery visits only have to do with dinner. We buy at BJ’s, Costco, or any other grocery store for the week food for our breakfasts, lunches, and snacks.

STAPLES FOR YOUR KITCHEN

SPICES- One of the things Dr. Sanchez has told me is the importance of consuming different spices. Spices and herbs are supposed to have incredible healing powers and its really so easy to add them to your meals while cooking.

  • Turmeric
  • Coriander
  • Cumin
  • Cinnamon
  • Ginger root
  • Garlic cloves

TURMERIC, CORIANDER, & CUMIN: These spices are relatively new to our diet. I had never even heard of Turmeric until I met an Indian nurse who told me about it. I had always heard that Indian food was medicinal. This nurse told me that Indians season their meats in the United States with Turmeric to kill the pesticides. I don’t know if this is true or not, but I researched the benefits of Turmeric and found tons of literature. We incorporate spices such as Turmeric and coriander to most of our meals now, including our soups, our chicken, and anywhere else we can sneak it in. And we ALWAYS have it at the house ready to use. You can google the health benefits of any of these spices and take a look for yourself. Here are some articles I found interesting.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/andrew-weil-md/turmeric-health-have-a-happy-new-year_b_798328.html

http://www.organicfacts.net/health-benefits/herbs-and-spices/health-benefits-of-coriander.html

http://www.organicfacts.net/health-benefits/seed-and-nut/health-benefits-of-cumin.html

Ginger -I love having these 2 staples in our home because they add a delicious taste and are also so good for you. Ginger is supposed to help with headaches, swelling, digestion, common colds, etc. I put a little ginger in our smoothies in the morning. I don’t juice very often but I LOVE juicing carrots, ginger, and oranges. IT is delicious!!!!

CAVEAT: A little ginger goes a LONG way. I tend to buy a small root so it doesn’t go to waste. You only need put a little bit like half an inch when you’re incorporating it into your meals or smoothies. Otherwise it will overpower your meal and you will hate it! So make sure you err on the side of caution and start very small. Then you can add more and see what your palette and your family’s can tolerate.

Fresh Garlic – we love to roast our Garlic. It squeezes out like butter and has a sweetness to it. Its absolutely delicious in recipes. We used it when we tried our red beet soup and started incorporating it into other meals. We also chop up the raw garlic and use it as a base for soups, stir fries, chicken, etc.

The more herbs and spices you can cook with, the better. We are just giving you some we always have at the house.

FRUITS AND VEGGIES- In this department we go crazy because most of our daily diet consists of fruits and Vegetables. Since we order from a coop, Annie’s Buying Club, we get a box of fruits and vegetables every 2 weeks that forces us to cook vegetables that we’re not really familiar with. Our cabbage soup, which is now a weekly meal in our home, came from getting a head of cabbage in this box that we didn’t know what to do with. We’ve also discovered other jewels like eggplant lasagna, and beet soup.

But the weeks we don’t have that box, we stick to a few basics that we know we love.

FRUITS-

  • bananas
  • organic apples
  • pears
  • organic grapes
  • organic strawberries
  • organic blueberries
  • organic  raspberries
  • melon – watermelon or cantaloupe
  • mango
  • tomatoes – some think this is a vegetable but its a fruit. I like to add it to my salads or for with balsamic vinegar for snack.
  • kiwi
  • peaches
  • oranges
  • Pineapples
  • frozen organic berries
  • any other frozen fruits
I don’t necessarily have all of these fruits in my house at one time. I tend to buy a big pack of organic apples at BJ’s because they don’t spoil quickly. I love putting apples in our morning smoothies, and chopping them up in our salads. I also use a cheese grater to make apple sauce for my 1 year old and he loves it. I do the same thing with Pears. I usually buy what’s in season so when mangoes are in season, we eat a lot of mango. When berries are in season, we eat a lot of berries. Fruits do not last in my home. Every morning I chop up pieces of whatever fruits I have at the house and let my kids pick at them until their smoothies are ready. I also have fruits available for snacks.
For my smoothies- I use the frozen fruits because its cheaper and the smoothies come out colder.

 VEGETABLES-

  • Broccoli
  • Asparagus
  • Leeks
  • Green beans
  • Organic Girl Greens
  • squash
  • zucchini
  • sweet potatoes
  • butternut squash
  • onions
  • mushrooms
  • carrots
  • avocados
  • kale

AGAIN, we don’t necessarily have all these at the house at the exact same time. The food we eat is perishable and therefore we buy with caution. We don’t buy more than we know we can consume. The week we get our box we eat the veggies in the box and sometimes buy some additional veggies if a recipe calls for it. The week we don’t have our box we usually make cabbage soup one night a week (recipe in prior post) which requires a lot of veggies, asparagus and leeks (a combination we love) once a week. Steamed broccoli once a week. Sweet potato once a week (this serves as our carb and we have another green vegetable on the plate like green beans, broccoli, asparagus, etc.)

We also like to make a vegetable stir fry once a week where we add a ton of veggies and no animal protein (recipe to follow in another post).

Raw veggies and Leftovers – I tend to use as much of our veggies as I can in our daily salads. I usually break a couple of pieces of broccoli from and toss in the salads. I use a peeler to peel the carrots. Instead of baby carrots or pre-cut carrots, I like the thin strips of carrots that I get with the peeler in our salads. I switch up the greens from Organic Girl. They have a super greens box which I like a lot. other times I get the 50/50 mix and sometimes I get just Spinach. They’re all good and I try different ones simply for variety. If I have leftover stir fry from the evening before or red beets that we roasted, I pack it up in a separate container. Then at lunch time I heat it up and sprinkle on top of my salad. I like adding hot food to my salads once in a while and the veggies are a nice mix.

FOR MY SMOOTHIES-  I always have kale, collard greens, or watercress for my smoothies. I love adding other ingredients which I will discuss in other posts but I have those as staples. When I run out of these, I can always grab some greens from my organic girl box and use that instead.

MEAT AND FISH-

  • Organic chicken
  • Wild caught Salmon
  • Turkey picadillo

I find organic chicken at Costco. I usually buy dark meat for the boys because it is softer and easier to eat. And I buy boneless chicken breast for us.
I buy wild salmon at Whole foods. I wait for the sale, sometimes they have it at $9.99 per pound and they’ve even gone as low as $7.99. When they have this sale, I buy tons of it. and store it in my freezer. Then I leave it out to defrost and eat it for dinner once a week.

We usually eat chicken, salmon, and turkey picadillo each once a week and the other nights eat soup or stir fry and try to go without animal protein or fish. But from time to time, Orlando goes to Captain’s tavern (a fish market by our home) and buys a nice sea bass, or shrimp for us. And once in a while we have a new york strip. We have red meat maybe once a month and its usually on a Friday as a treat for us.

NUTS AND SEEDS-

Nuts and seeds are a great snack because they are portable. Its probably one of the only things we have that we can put in a ziplock baggie and take with us anywhere, or keep at our desks.

  • sunflower seeds
  • pumpkin seeds
  • raw almonds
  • raw pecans
  • walnuts
  • sliced almonds
  • raw cashews
  • macadamian nuts
  • pistachios

I always have nuts in my bag in case i’m starving and i’m driving home or at my desk and ran out of food. I don’t spend all day snacking on nuts by any means, but I do probably eat them once a day.

I try to incorporate these into our salads as well as for snacks. I usually put walnuts, sliced almonds, and pecans in our salads. Sometimes I put the sunflower seeds in our salads also. I love adding crunch to our salads!

Dairy-

  • almond milk
  • grassfed cow’s milk
  • oikos yogurt
  • cage free eggs
  • organic unsalted butter

I personally don’t eat yogurt. Its a texture issue for me. But my kids love it so I give them a yogurt every day. Orly drinks one cup of cow’s milk in the morning usually and I have one cup of the milk to make my cafe con leche. That’s it for our milk consumption. Justin doesn’t drink cow’s milk because he’s allergic to it so I give him almond milk, goat’s milk, or rice milk.

I use almond milk with my oatmeal.

I always have eggs in our house because I make hard boiled eggs in batches. Then I put them in our salads, with avocados (Recipe in prior post) or by themselves.

Grains and Beans – Grains and beans are really the only items we buy that have a longer shelf life and don’t have to be consumed within the week. I go to whole foods and buy grains and beans such as

  • Millet
  • Barley
  • Quinoa
  • Germinated brown rice
  • steel cut oats.
  • black beans
  • red beans
  • lentils.

I keep these in containers at the house. Then we have them in case we need them. Sometimes I make a batch of quinoa and use it for dinner one night,and for lunch for the boys the next day, etc. I do the same thing with all the other grains. We do not eat grains every day. We make lentil soup once every week or two weeks. And we always make enough to have leftovers.

I love making steel cut oats and storing it for breakfast for the boys. I sweeten it up with some vanilla extract and cinnamon.

CAVEAT: Sometimes we need to be practical. As much as I love steel cut oats, I always keep the little microwaveable oatmeal packets at my office or at home. I love these little packets because again they are portable and if I’m in a pinch in the office, I make myself a little oatmeal packet. And of course sometimes my kids want oatmeal in the mornings and I don’t have any more of my steel cut oats batch so I make them a quick packet with almond milk.

My motto is I try my best to eat as healthy as possible, but we have to always be prepared for when we are in a rush and eat as best we can in those situations also.

Other staples-

  • liquid stevia
  • natural peanut butter
  • a good jelly made of pure fruit and with no preservatives
  • ezekiel bread
  • olive oil
  • balsamic vinegar
  • coconut oil

We try to cook with coconut oil as frequently as possible to avoid altering the olive oil properties. I use olive oil for salads and to drizzle on other foods.

I think this is a pretty comprehensive list of the items we keep in our home. We use to have things like wheat crackers and deli meats, and slices of processed cheese. We have eliminated those foods from our diet. But as I’ve said before, we buy what we eat. We don’t typically have food sitting in our shelves, fridge or freezer for long periods of time. Sometimes I buy something different like Mint. And then I spend the whole week making different recipes with mint. I will post about all those things along the way, but at least this is a good starting guide for what to look for in your grocery stores.

Please let me know via comments or email if you have questions, suggestions, or if this is a helpful list for you.

HAPPY SHOPPING!!!!